Many parents struggle to keep up with the pace of technology, and children often understand their devices and apps far better than their guardians do. This creates a fundamental asymmetry: kids discover workarounds faster than parents can implement controls. A child who has grown up with smartphones and tablets has an intuitive understanding of how apps, browsers, and networks function — knowledge that many adults never had the opportunity to develop.
This gap is not a failure of parenting. Technology evolves rapidly, and most content filtering tools are designed with the assumption that the person configuring them has a reasonable understanding of networking concepts like DNS, IP addresses, and encrypted connections. When that assumption doesn't hold, filters can be misconfigured or left with gaps that children quickly find and exploit.
The solution is not just better technology — it is also education. Parents who understand how filtering works at a basic level are far better equipped to maintain it. Learning what DNS filtering does, how a VPN bypasses it, and why device-level controls matter will give you the knowledge you need to stay one step ahead. The goal is not to become a network engineer, but to understand the principles well enough to recognize when something has changed or been circumvented.